Done Right to Build Self-Esteem
Here’s a short quiz for
parents:
• Do you find yourself doing things yourself because it’s easier than
trying to get your children to do them?
• Do you have to nag your children to get them to do their chores or
homework?
• Do they have the potential to get better grades?
• Are your children struggling to balance school with sports and other
activities?
• Do you find less and less time for family time?
• Is your time together less enjoyable than you’d like?
• Are you fearful your children are not reaching their full potential
for success and happiness?
If you answered yes to even one of these questions, there’s help on the
way. According to psychologist Donna M. Genett, helping your child to
learn to get things done right, on time, and on their own will go a long
way toward alleviating these concerns.
Genett says, “There’s a synergistic cycle at play here. When you
increase your child’s ability to get things done right, on time, and on
his or her own, the child becomes happier and achieves more. This in
turn increases his or her sense of self-esteem which leads to the child
accepting more responsibility and accomplishing still more. Children
caught in this beneficial cycle are more likely to reach their full
potential now and as adults.”
As if this weren’t enough, according to Genett, the side benefits are
huge. Since less parental nagging is required—the kids get their
homework and chores done on their own—there’s less conflict and an
overall better family relationship results. Because there isn’t as much
procrastination, foot-dragging, and time-consuming conflict, parents and
kids also find they have more free time to do what they like. Everybody
wins.
Sounds simple right? But how do you and your kids get started on this
cycle? That’s the help that’s on the way. Genett’s second book,
Help
Your Kids Get It Done Right at Home and School! Building Responsibility
and Self-Esteem in Children has just been released. Her first book,
If You Want It Done Right, You Don’t Have to Do It Yourself! The
Power of Effective Delegation, has been translated into 13
languages. In that book, Genett uses a parable about “identical twin
cousins” James and Jones to present her six-steps of effective
delegation.
In Done Right at Home and School! James, who learned the
delegation skills from his cousin Jones, now notices that Jones’s kids
achieve more, have more free time, and are happier than his. James and
his wife set out to learn why and discover the six steps for building
responsibility and self-esteem in children.
Help Your Kids Get It Done Right at Home and School! Building
Responsibility and Self-Esteem in Children (Quill Driver Books,
$19.95) is available at brick and mortar bookstores and online
bookstores or by calling the publisher at 1-800-497-4909.